Live a life that is yours and not dictated by others
Living life on your
|Manual compiled by Dr Emma Bisschoff
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LIVING LIFE ON YOUR OWN TERMS
“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.” Steve Jobs
How much of your day do you spend on what is important to you? What standards and values do you live by? Are they yours or someone else’s?
How do you feel about your routine and life in general? Are you satisfied or are you longing for something that feels fuzzy and out of reach? Do you look forward to starting your day or do you wake up dreading the responsibilities and what you have to do?
How much intention is behind your day-to-day life and how much of it is unconscious?
If you live with purpose and intention, great, you are more awake than most of us.
If you feel driven by outside demands and expectations and you do not even remember why you do half of the things you do (other than having to), then read on.
Living life on your own terms – what does it mean?
Your experiences are yours
Growth and change is part of life
The barriers to change
Awaken the dreamer within
The perfect day
If you woke up this morning and made a wish
To work or not to work
A few considerations
Your perfect day is yours
The only time we have is now
Go with how you feel
Do what you love or love what you do
Life will interrupt
Assume no one is watching or judging you
Audio: New dreamscapes
Passion and purpose
Finding your spark
Passion is personal
Pinpoint your passion
The source of your passion
Living life in alignment
Unique talents and special gifts
Divine purpose of the Universe to unfold
Ways to discover your unique gifts
What is important to you about life?
How to apply your special gifts
You do matter
Break out the box
How can we get out of the box?
Practice self-awareness and inner courage
Get clear on what you wish to achieve
Fact check the stories you tell yourself
Get comfortable with experimenting and failing
One bit of freedom leads to another
Are you walking your highest path?
There is no such thing as the wrong path
You just know
You are not compromising yourself
You are equipped to handle life’s curveballs
You are not afraid to be you
You believe in something bigger than yourself
You are always learning
You feel grateful and connected
You keep growing in consciousness
Audio: Freeing your true Self
Living by design and not by default
What does “To live by design” mean?
Set some boundaries
Say your desires out loud
Be aware of your values
Know what you are good at and own it
Create your blueprint to live by design
Giving yourself permission
The bubble of permission
Giving yourself permission to be
Permission to say no
How to give yourself permission
Let go of approval
Disentangle your worth
Learn to trust yourself
Permission for self-care
Replace obligation with choice
Permission is key
Permission requires responsibility
Permission to be yourself
I stopped apologizing for my heart
I stopped apologizing for my words
I stopped apologizing for the person I am becoming
I stopped apologizing for my pain
I stopped apologizing for my imperfections
Curious by nature
How curious are you?
Curious brings its own reward
Variety is the spice of life
Curiosity is like Brain Gym
Curiosity helps you embrace adventure
Curiosity leads to flow
Open engagement with life
Curiosity and being smarter
Curiosity makes you happy
Becoming curious about the everyday
You need never be bored again
It supports living life to the fullest
Developing your curiosity
Keep an open mind
Try new things
Try to see things from a new angle
Try to see things from another person’s perspective
Keep learning and keep it fun
Curiosity breeds more curiosity
Find the Divinity within
Cleaning the wound
Your inner spark of Divinity
I Am: Guided meditation
The calling of your Soul
When the Universe has left you to figure things out on your own
Audio: Soul calling
Become the true navigator of your life
Presence and awareness
Letting go of self-imposed limitations
New thought patterns
Stop making excuses
Stop making unhealthy choices
Stop trying to control everything
Stop thinking only of “right now”
Stop trying to be perfect
Stop waiting to win the lottery
Oracle of the Soul
The king and the sage
Choose to identify with your Higher Self
Core values for living the life you want
What are core values?
Why are core values important?
Some core values to live by
Start living a life that is yours
Life is different for every single person
Let go of expectations
Learn to listen to your heart
Quiet the anxiousness and focus on the moment
Trust your gut
Be willing to accept change
Ground yourself in the truth
Everything is both a blessing and a lesson
Forgive yourself and move forward
Audio: Choosing a lifestyle you want to create
Video: Live awake
Reconnect with your passion
What did you want to do as a child?
What makes you truly happy?
What would you do for free?
What is your cause?
Go on a passion quest
Video: Connect to your passion by listening to the whisper
The courage to be the real you
Why is it so hard to just be yourself?
Do you ever feel like something is missing?
What is required to be your real Self?
Re-evaluating your life
Re-aligning current relationships
Speaking your truth
Stop caring what others think
Take chances and make changes
Audio: Sacred stillness
Rules for living
The Dalai Lama’s 18 Rules of Living
Making contact with your Divine Self
What is the Divine Self?
Why contact your Divine Self?
Contacting your Divine Self
Descriptions and qualities of the Divine Self
Clearing blockages with your Divine Self
More suggestions of what to ask your Divine Self to do for you
Clearing energy to release obstacles
What does it mean to clear energy?
What do clear states feel like?
Results of clearing
Clearing energy meditation
Receiving Divine Guidance
Divine state of liberation
The eternal flame of Source
Audio: Receiving Divine Guidance
The miracle of life
Every moment becomes something to savor
The miracle of life
The miracle of love
The miracle of kindness
The miracle of your body
The miracle of nature
The miracle of your creativity
Make the rest of your life a miracle
Reawaken your Spirit
Is this really me?
Who am I, what am I?
What can I let go of?
Your Spirit needs space
Video: Awaken your Spirit: Unleash your life force
Live life with no regrets
Some ideas on how to live life with no regrets
Being content with life
Stop buying stuff you don’t need
Show people you appreciate them
Learn to enjoy simple things that don’t cost money
Live in the moment
Journal – 101 pages
999 Cosmic Light Oneness – Value $90 / R1 255
This is a very high energy in the frequency of 999 which is celestial. It is the frequency that allows you to connect and vibrate in the Divine God Energy. When you are aligned into this higher frequency, there is a raising of your energy that ascends you to a level in which you can easily overcome your problems through the ease of solutions. This higher energy lifts you above the issues on the mundane level so that you can see with clarity all that is in different perspectives. When you can become One with the Cosmos energetically and consciously, you have the energy to meet and rise up from any Earthly issue you face.
Aura Infusion System – Value $52 / R809
Aura Infusion’s System has a vibration that increases the amount of light coming into your auric field to aid ascension and spiritual growth. This added light is highly effective at helping to create excellent results in many areas of the body and particularly in the throat chakra.
By bringing additional light into this area, your overall communication abilities will be improved, and as well you may acquire enhanced psychic communication gifts. The vibration of this system brings you an increase in joy, with the flow on effect helping your emotional state to improve as well as assisting the healing of any relationship problems you may have.
This is a powerful system as the addition of light into your auric field charges the light-body and creates a clear spiritual purpose. If you wish to expand the growth of psychic powers including amplifying your mediumship and channeling gifts, this system may be of benefit. It may also help you to make contact with angels and to find your spirit guides.
It has a deep resonance within the Heart chakra, Throat Chakra and Third eye chakra. As the third eye chakra is strongly related to developing psychic abilities.
Aura Infusion’s System will be a definite asset to you if you are working on these gifts.
If you lack self-confidence this energy will be of benefit to you. Aura Infusion’s System aids courage and self-respect, and brings joy, happiness and improved self-esteem. It may enhance your creativity and brings good luck and good fortune.
The energy may help the healing of various problems, including blood diseases and ulcers and may aid pain relief. It supports normal appetite and reduces mental and spiritual fatigue. It also has excellent protective qualities against psychic manipulation.
There are 5 steps as a Complete Treatment of Aura Infusion’s System:
- Aura Cleansing
- Aura Balancing
- Aura Activating
- Aura Reinforcement
- Aura Infusion
Black Kundalini Fire – Value $161 / R2 491
Founder: Ramon Martinez Lopez
Black Jade is an etheric bodyguard and a stone of protection. Its strong elemental energy shields not only the physical body, but guards against negative forces or entities, energy vampires and people projecting anger and aggression.
Black Jade is also an important tool for looking inward. It allows for honest self-evaluation and helps absorb and transform unhealthy and destructive emotions.
Black Jade Uses and Purposes
Jade is excellent for healing feelings of guilt. It also treats an excessive desire to adapt oneself to a group, even if it is sect-like, exaggerated militarism, a follow-the-leader attitude.
As a professional support stone, Jade aids doctors, nurses, veterinarians, and all healers in making practical diagnosis and in their applications.
Black Jade Physical Healing Energy
Black Jade protects against viral and bacterial infection, parasitic infestation, and associated illnesses.
Black Jade is thought to assist the reproductive system in both sexes, treat illnesses in older people, and alleviate problems with the feet, legs, knees and hips. It helps restricted blood flow and is believed to be useful in treating deep vein thrombosis.
Jade is a powerful cleansing stone, enhancing the body’s filtration and elimination organs. It is excellent for treating the kidneys, spleen and supra adrenal glands, removing toxins and balancing.
Jade has a restorative property, allowing for both the cellular and skeletal systems.
Black Jade Emotional Healing Energy
Black Jade is an excellent stone for absorbing and transforming negative emotions, such as fear, envy, doubt, anger or hatred. It allows the unconscious to open and release the original traumatic memories which are often at the root of such feelings.
Black Jade lends the courage and fortitude needed to examine one’s own negativity and its source, and to “face the shadow self, own emotional maturity, behavior patterns, ego… they can be faced and remedied, providing growth and loving integration of all aspects of self.
Jade provides confidence and self-assuredness, self-reliance and self-sufficiency.
Black Jade Chakra Healing and Balancing Energy
Black Jade stimulates the Root Chakra. The Base, or Root Chakra, is located at the base of the spine, and controls the energy for kinesthetic feeling and movement. It is the foundation of physical and spiritual energy for the body.
When physically out of balance the symptoms will manifest themselves as lethargy, low levels of activity, low enthusiasm, and a need for constant stimulation. When its spiritual energies are out of balance, you will feel flighty, disconnected from reality, and distant.
When the Base Chakra is in balance, the physical body regains its strength and stamina, and the spiritual energy is rekindled in the form of security and sense of one’s own power. It often leads to independence and spontaneous leadership.
Black Jade Spiritual Energy
Put on Jade assists in creating magic for the highest good and in protection from harmful or deceitful entities during spirit work.
Bliss Light Body Activation – value $34 / R516
Most people find that they feel a strong energy of love and joy, that merges into a profound spiritual depth of feeling that almost takes your breath away with its strength and breadth. Many people find it is quite unlike anything they have felt before as it is changing your energy patterns and helping you to anchor and ground your lightbody to Mother Gaia.
These energies have an extremely high vibration. If you have been working with this energy and are sensitive to energy, when you hold these lovely energy, you will more than likely feel their quite potent vibration in a number of areas of the body.
Bliss Light Body Activation have an amazing resonance in the heart chakra and higher heart or thymus chakra. Bliss Light Body Activation have a lovely heart-based energy, but they bring you so much more than the average heart chakra energy. Its quickly take you into a very deep inner awareness, and once there you will not want to come back until you have fully experienced all that will the Bliss Light Body Activation gave. Clearing any discordant or stagnant energy in your auric field, this energy opens the way for ascension, spiritual awakening and growth.
When you hold them in the heart, you truly receive a blissful charge from them. The vibration of these energies feels like a rush of pure pleasure, inner delight and love, that wells up within you and energizes your heart and bring feelings of joy and happiness, and a sense of what can almost be described as inner rapture… truly beautiful!
It will also stimulate the higher chakras and are powerful to use in meditation. They are a safe energy to stimulate kundalini awakening, and to aid you to awaken your inner serpent.
This energy has the function of:
Clearing discordant and stagnant energy in the auric field. Helps spiritual awakening and growth. Stimulates kundalini awakening. Aids achieving blissful heart. Brings feelings of joy and happiness. Stimulates the higher chakras
Soul Light Reiki – Value $27 / R413
By Daelyn Wolf
Soul Light Reiki is a healing and empowering system that connects you to Universal Source Energy, your higher self, and your soul energy. It works to help boost your energies and open your conscious mind to know your true self and connect with your soul. When you are connected to your Soul Light energy you are able to stand in your power, enhance healing, and raise your energies to a higher level.
This higher light energy can boost your charisma, self-esteem, and confidence in any area of your life, draw to you perfect love, and open the path for success. There is no symbol in this system but there are pictures showing you how to use the energies. Your Soul Light is one of the most powerful energies available to you, learning to connect and use this energy is empowering.
Personal Power Manifestation – Value $15 / R225
Manifesting Guidance Program level 1 – Personal Power Manifestation
This energy attunement connects you quickly to the higher source energy and it will begin working to dissolve the negative energies of doubt and fear That causes this feeling of lack of power.
When you begin to feel the loss of your personal power, you might not even be aware of it at first. It may sort of slip or creep in and get a very strong hold on you before you realize it. Other times, you may be aware of it immediately. Anytime you feel a loss of personal power, it is always That related to a situation you find yourself in. You may have an illness or That accident causes injuries and makes you feel powerless. You may have married someone-whom you love very much, and then discovered That he or she spends all of your money, abuses you, and treats you badly. or you may lose your job and feel a lack of personal power about changing the Circumstances.
No matter what has led you to this point of lack and loss of personal power, You Should Be Aware That you can overcome it and laughed like the phoenix from the ashes of despair and disempowerment.
You have the power to change your circumstances.
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